5 Tips From a New Mom
Hey, Paulina here—aka your friendly neighborhood muthaaaaa! So, becoming a mom is like hopping on the craziest roller coaster you never even knew existed. It's all about the thrill, the spills, and, yep, the occasional chills. As a newbie on this ride, let me spill the tea (because coffee is so last year) on how to not just survive but totally rock this motherhood gig. Here's my unfiltered, laugh-so-you-don't-cry guide to embracing the chaos:
Trust Your Instincts: So you're telling me this little human didn't come with a manual? Cool, cool. Guess what? Your gut feelings are your superpowers. Forget the unsolicited advice from Aunt Linda and those 500-page parenting books. You do you, mama. Whether it's mastering the swaddle or decoding those mystery cries at 3 AM, your instincts are about to become your BFFs.
Self-Care is My Jam: Listen up, putting yourself first isn't just okay—it's a must! Sneak in that steamy shower or treat yourself to that extra foam latte with a shot of caramel. Why? Because a happy mom equals a happy baby. And don't be shy about tagging in your partner or crew for some me-time. You're the queen of this castle, and even queens need a break.
Embrace the Hot Mess Express: Newsflash—Instagram is a lie. Not every mom is a DIY queen with a spotless house. It's totally fine to be a mess. Forgot to rebuy diapers? Rock those emergency napkins. Only managed to cook dinner twice this month? High-five, you're doing fantastic. Let's ditch the perfection playbook and go with the messy, beautiful flow.
Build Your Tribe: They say it takes a village, and ain't that the truth! Cultivate your squad of fellow mamas, wise grandmas, or cool aunts who actually get it. Whether through mom groups, virtual meet-ups, or just spamming your BFF's phone at odd hours—find your people and hold on tight.
Cherish Every Crazy Moment: Blink, and you'll miss it, right? Amid the diaper tsunamis and sleepless nights, there are these perfect little moments—like the first smile that's not gas or that tiny hand gripping your finger. Capture, cherish, and maybe even cry a little (tears of joy, obviously). This baby gig? It's fleeting, fabulous, and 100% the best show in town.